BACK AGAIN..

Summer has officially come to an end; it’s been over 3 months of awesomeness, love, fun and solid self-development. Some days when I got really bored I would go through my Snapchat memories and I would really miss school and the stress. Now, it’s the beginning of a new semester, the first for some and the beginning of the end for many. It’s a journey you are never truly prepared to embark on and for me it’s the continuation of a journey that will end in the next two and half years, a tiring yet thrilling journey and I enter this new phase with a surprisingly open mind and a heart that is ready to fight till the end.

Most of our friends are studying abroad or taking time off to build their businesses or just going through a struggle they may not be able to share, whatever the case may be don’t forget to check up on them, from my experience the biggest smiles often hide the biggest fears, troubles and tears. Basically I write this post to encourage us all, trust me no matter how strong or prepared you are this journey called “school”, it has a way of getting through your barriers and could make you wish you were selling pinpop instead.

            Firstly, take your mental health seriously. Social media, standards and academic stress will worry your life if you get carried away by them. Sometimes take a break to go out with friends, take some time off social media (don’t worry you can still get back your streaks), take yourself out on a date, try something new, take time to self-reflect and most importantly don’t let the standards or lifestyle of others bother you.

Please stay away from unnecessary drama. Nothing is more likely to give you stress and make you worry for no reason than drama; trust me it comes in all shapes and sizes especially in a school. Flee drama like a plague; learn to mind your business and just live life without interfering with another’s happiness or success. Stay hydrated and moisturized!!!

Deadlines are not there for fun, the earlier you get them done the easier your life will become and that means more time to make proper adjustments and get that awesome grade. You’re not an island make new friends , get involved in campus activities, try new leadership roles, start a club or an awesome activity or campaign. One of the worst mistakes you could make in a university is not to properly develop yourself and network (to be honest networking has a better chance of getting you recognized than that degree), gain new skills, learn a language or two and explore your boundaries.

Seek help from whomever you deem trustworthy and don’t be afraid to talk to your professors and ask questions about courses that are difficult.

 Always remember you are amazing and school will not finish you, you will finish school.  ❤🙏