Nobody got us like us.....

             The 8th of March is a day dedicated to celebrate women and girls alike, a day the world stands up in solidarity to the struggles and also to highlight the achievements and change women bring to our society and the world. Women all around the world have had to fight to get  most of the liberty we enjoy today, but millions still find themselves fighting various but similar battles, discrimination, segregation, violence, human rights abuse, poverty and more. The fight should not be limited to a day, we (women and men) must continue to fight for the rights of women. We need to roll our sleeves and fight for our futures and the futures of the unborn.

        When talking about the problem we often neglect to talk about the problems within the female community, problems that often encourage the struggles that are dominant within the female community. There is often a lot of hatred, envy, jealousy, gossip, internalized misogyny and a different level of double standards associated with women directed at other women. Women are said to be of a loving and nurturing nature, and most times I find myself wondering why more than often we find it hard to support our fellow women. You often hear women and even girls talk about how they would rather be in the company of guys than other ladies, because most times we find it hard to support, genuinely love and how their company is filled with gossip and drama.
     
       Our form of abuse does't come physically, we express our hatred for one another verbally and emotionally and these attacks often happen for no logical reason. As women one of our greatest traits is our emotions and to a large extent its is our greatest burden, and is actually the cause of most of our hatred for one another. Jealousy, Insecurity, sexual jealousy, inferior complex,  hypocrisy, MEN and many more are some of the reasons most women hate on each other. Women are so used to attacking each other for attention and money that we are often used for entertainment.

     I've been in a room and a really pretty lady walked in and most of the ladies there were either throwing icy glares, making comments like "shes probably a runs girl, she how shes dressed", like how? Do you know women slut-sham much more than men do, they often spread that idea into the minds of others. When it comes to support most women would rather watch you humiliate yourself or destroy your business than offer you a helping hand, in conclusion many do not know how to handle competition or perhaps they fear you might outshine them.

    Until we learn to love within, not the kind of love that has you openly pretending to support another women but you do not even care genuinely about her success. The kind of love that wants women to actually rise, stand and dominate. Also, the kind of love that accepts criticism and also doesn't spread fake news around. To see women and girls going places we never thought we could. Women need to teach other women, stay teachable, promote ourselves, stay kind and to compete with development being the goal.
   

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