How are you ?

  This is actually a really short post.

    "HOW ARE YOU?"
            "ARE YOU OK?"

          I think that questions go a long way. It's one thing to be a friend or know someone and you are unapproachable, a friend is slowly dying and you cant lend a supporting and confiding ear. I always make sure to ask either one of these questions, I never know what someone may be going through and its only right I lend a shoulder and an ear for someone to confide. Doing this not because I don't have my own problems but someone could be hurting or just needs to let their steam off.


        People handle stress differently, what might rock your boat might sink someone else's ship. I believe people differ but you should actually never see someone hurting and leave them, make an effort and let it be recorded. Its never ever easy to open up to anyone but I feel it goes away, or get a hobby or activity that help you cool off, most times when I cant handle the rubbish anymore I talk long walks, write, bake or play B-ball. Keeping certain emotions locked up does more harm than good, I learnt that the very hard way.


    Finding someone who genuinely cares about you is very hard especially in this generation. It's OK to break down, don't forget to stand up and keep on moving, the journey is yours.